Saturday, January 8, 2011
IT'S THAT DIRTY MONEY BABY!
SONG OF THE WEEK: DIDDY DIRTY MONEY FT. SWIZZ BEATZ- ASS ON THE FLOOR
(SUCH A FU***** BANGER)
AND CHECK OUT THEIR OTHER HIT: SOMEONE TO LOVE ME
ARE YOU PLANNING A WEDDING??? WELL HERE ARE SOME WEDDING IDEAS!!!!
I am personally engaged to be married and am currently planning my wedding....YAYYYYY ME! But for those that are alittle stuck in the midst of the process and just don't know what to do, check out these websites listed below the photos.
http://www.theknot.com/ is an amazing place to go to for ideas on EVERYTHING! From a wedding budgeter, wedding checklist, reception venues, photographers, florists, dj's, and much much more.
My theme colors were red, black and a hint of silver...check out my reception ideas.
http://www.theknot.com/ is an amazing place to go to for ideas on EVERYTHING! From a wedding budgeter, wedding checklist, reception venues, photographers, florists, dj's, and much much more.
My theme colors were red, black and a hint of silver...check out my reception ideas.
My dream wedding dress by Vera Wang. Well not exactly the same gown but definitely the same style.
I would like to have my cake made by DD Cakes because they have the best cakes in Miami to ME. They made my cake for my daughter's 2nd birthday party. Their website is http://www.ddcakes.com/.
Vendors and locations that you should check out is: http://www.flowersbysandra.com/, http://www.treetopballroom.com/, http://www.triasflowers.com/.
I hope some of this information was helpful to you in planning your future wedding!
LALA VAZQUEZ-ANTHONY STEPS OUT IN SOME KILLER YSL PUMPS!
CHECK OUT MRS. ANTHONY ROCKING THESE YSL LEOPARD PUMPS ($880) COUPLED WITH AN ALEXANDER MCQUEEN LEATHER JACKET ($4400).
BY THE WAY...LALA LOOKS AMAZING AS ALWAYS!
FRIENDS: HOW MANY OF US HAVE THEM???
MY MOTTO: If they tell you that they are in your corner and support all you endeavors 100%, please make sure that they have enough gas money to take the ride w/you, or else you will end up stranded somewhere with no cellphone reception to call for HELP!
I've seen and experienced firsthand just what jealously, hatred and bitterness could do to a "friendship". In today's society, whether you are male or female, friends (loyal) are hard as HELL to come by. You meet people that you think are genuinely there for you only to find out that they have a negative motive for being your friend. Some people truly don't want to see you succeed in life and those are the main ones that come around just to be NOISEY. It is very saddening that you will honestly go through life with someone that you may think is your friend only to realize that they have been stabbing you in the back with the next person. I can't stand when someone involves themselves in an altercation that has nothing to do with them. I have found myself in situations where I would have an issue with one person and someone else that has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with it involves themselves like WTF??? A common female trait is JEALOUSLY so a friendship may start off good but I may do something that you have always wanted to do, drive a nicer car, dress nicer, have more friends, and make more money than you and now all of a sudden, you start talking about me to whomever is willing to lend an ear. What I discuss with you or do should never be a topic of discussion when I am not around if we are SUPPOSE to be friends. It is jealously that will end a friendship. When will black men and women join forces to uplift each other instead of tearing each other down with negativity.
If I say, " So and so, did you know that I finally started that blog I have always wanted to do?" Don't say "What for?" say "Congratulations." There is a difference between constructive criticism and just being just plain rude. Sometimes I may not need advice, just looking for a shoulder to lean on or someone to vent to, don't always give me the I TOLD YOU SO advice. I am so tired of the part time friends that only call you when they need you but always have an excuse for when you need them. Those types of friends you make sure to not even allow to go for the ride. If all your friends do is discuss other people and not themselves, always involved in drama, let them go.
So the next time someone says that they are you friend, make sure they have enough gas money for the long trip ahead but if not, kindly slow down to a safe speed, reach over them to open the door and let them out. When your light turns green, put your foot on the gas pedal and don't look in the rearview mirror. When you are planning your life for success, the negative friends and thinking has to go. Not everyone can go on your road to success and that is just fine. REAL TRUE Friends are like needles in a haystack, difficult as hell to find!
I've seen and experienced firsthand just what jealously, hatred and bitterness could do to a "friendship". In today's society, whether you are male or female, friends (loyal) are hard as HELL to come by. You meet people that you think are genuinely there for you only to find out that they have a negative motive for being your friend. Some people truly don't want to see you succeed in life and those are the main ones that come around just to be NOISEY. It is very saddening that you will honestly go through life with someone that you may think is your friend only to realize that they have been stabbing you in the back with the next person. I can't stand when someone involves themselves in an altercation that has nothing to do with them. I have found myself in situations where I would have an issue with one person and someone else that has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with it involves themselves like WTF??? A common female trait is JEALOUSLY so a friendship may start off good but I may do something that you have always wanted to do, drive a nicer car, dress nicer, have more friends, and make more money than you and now all of a sudden, you start talking about me to whomever is willing to lend an ear. What I discuss with you or do should never be a topic of discussion when I am not around if we are SUPPOSE to be friends. It is jealously that will end a friendship. When will black men and women join forces to uplift each other instead of tearing each other down with negativity.
If I say, " So and so, did you know that I finally started that blog I have always wanted to do?" Don't say "What for?" say "Congratulations." There is a difference between constructive criticism and just being just plain rude. Sometimes I may not need advice, just looking for a shoulder to lean on or someone to vent to, don't always give me the I TOLD YOU SO advice. I am so tired of the part time friends that only call you when they need you but always have an excuse for when you need them. Those types of friends you make sure to not even allow to go for the ride. If all your friends do is discuss other people and not themselves, always involved in drama, let them go.
So the next time someone says that they are you friend, make sure they have enough gas money for the long trip ahead but if not, kindly slow down to a safe speed, reach over them to open the door and let them out. When your light turns green, put your foot on the gas pedal and don't look in the rearview mirror. When you are planning your life for success, the negative friends and thinking has to go. Not everyone can go on your road to success and that is just fine. REAL TRUE Friends are like needles in a haystack, difficult as hell to find!
Friday, January 7, 2011
TRINECA'S WORLD SPOTLIGHT SHOWCASE GOES TO: LUCKI CHARM ACCESSORIES BOUTIQUE
****LUCKI CHARM ACCESSORIES****
THIS SPOTLIGHT IS DEDICATED TO MY SISTER MARKETHA "TRENDSETTA" MALOY. FOR ABOUT A YEAR OR SO, HER DREAM WAS TO OPEN UP AN ACCESSORY STORE BECAUSE SHE IS SO INTO FASHION AND ALL THINGS HOT. HER DREAM FINALLY CAME TRUE LAST YEAR DECEMBER WHEN SHE OPENED THE HOTTEST ACCESSORY STORE INSIDE USA FLEA MARKET. WITH EVERYTHING FROM BANGELS, NECKLACES, EARRINGS, HANDBAGS, AND CLUTCHES, HER STORE HAS EVERYTHING YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AND MORE. PLEASE STOP BY AND SUPPORT...THE STORE IS LOCATED IN USA FLEA MARKET BOOTH C69-72! THANK YOU...
MY CRAZY SHOE FETISH AND WHERE TO GET SOME OF THE HOTTEST PAIRS OF PUMPS!
I LOVE SHOES AND DECIDED TO SHOW SOME OF THE SHOES THAT I HAVE FALLEN HARD FOR. DESIGNERS SUCH AS CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN, FRANCESSO SACCO, GIUSEPPE ZANOTTI, YSL, GIANMARCO LORENZI AND MORE MAKE TO DIE FOR SHOES. EVERY GIRL SHOULD HAVE ATLEAST ONE PAIR OF HEELS FROM ONE OF THESE DESIGNERS. CHECK OUT SOME OF THESE SITES FOR SOME SICK HEELS:
SHOES TO DIE FOR!
BAD FATHERS, GOOD FATHERS VS. CHILD SUPPORT
YOU ARE IN WHAT YOU FEEL IS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER AND UNEXPECTEDLY YOU GET PREGNANT. YOU ARE SO EXCITED WITH THE NEWS AND YOU ARE HOPING THAT HE WOULD SHARE THE SAME FEELINGS. SO YOU APPROACH WITH THE NEWS AND SAY " SWEETHEART, WE'RE PREGNANT!" SILENCE AS HE STARES AT YOU ONLY TO SAY, "SO WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO." YOUR HEART SINKS BECAUSE THAT IS NOT THE RESPONSE YOU WERE ANTICIPATING ON.YOUR NOW PERFECT RELATIONSHIP HAS LEFT A BITTER TASTE IN YOUR MOUTH.
FAST FORWARD TO TEN MONTHS AND YOU GIVE BIRTH TO A BEAUTIFUL BABY. AS YOU LIVE IN THE MOMENT OF JUST DELIVERING THIS HEALTHY BABY, YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE ALL ALONE. YOU ARE TORN BETWEEN BEING A SINGLE MOM AND DOING IT W/O HELP, OR BEING A SINGLE MOM AND ASKING FOR CHILD SUPPORT.I AM PERSONALLY NOT A FAN OF C.S. BUT WHAT I CAN'T STAND IS WHEN YOU:
1) HOLD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES AGAINST A FATHER THAT IS TRYING TO BE IN THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILD ONLY TO BE BLOCKED BY DRAMA THAT IS NOT NEEDED.
2) DISRESPECTING THE FATHER OR MOTHER IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
3) CONSTANTLY TAKING THE FATHER TO COURT FOR CHILD SUPPORT FOR MORE MONEY (THAT YOU MAY NOT EVEN GET) JUST TO BE SPITEFUL BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T MOVED ON IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND IS NOW USING THE MONEY FOR YOUR OWN NEEDS.
BUT FATHERS, I HAVE NO SYMPATHY OR EMPATHY FOR A MAN THAT WILL NOT DO RIGHT BY HIS CHILD. WHEN YOU BECOME A FATHER, YOU SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY HAVE A NEW MINDSET OF NOW I HAVE SOMEONE ELSE TO LIVE FOR. IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU MAY FEEL LIKE THE CHILD MAY NOT BE YOURS, UNTIL YOU CAN PROVE IT, BE A FATHER BECAUSE ONCE YOU STEP INTO THAT CHILD'S LIFE AND CREATE A BOND, IT IS THE HARDEST THING TO BREAK. A WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO CHASE A MAN DOWN TO BE A FATHER. IF YOU CAN SPEND YOUR MONEY ON FIXING YOUR CAR, BUYING A NEW WARDROBE, OR GOING OUT WITH THE BOYS TO THE STRIP CLUB, YOU ARE MORE THAN ABLE AND CAPABLE OF BEING A FATHER. A CHILD NEEDS MORE THAN MONEY...THEY NEED THAT EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL CONNECTION.
MOMS, IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE A FATHER, THEN YOU STEP IN AND DO IT. THE CHILD WILL ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS. ME PERSONALLY, I AM NOT A FAN OF C.S. BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE THE MENTALITY OF MOMMY AND DADDY AND I WILL NEVER BE IN A JUDGE'S COURTROOM DEMANDING SUPPORT. A CHILD DIDN'T ASK TO BE IN THIS WORLD, WE AS PARENTS HAVE TO BE MATURE ENOUGH TO PUT THE BULLSH** ASIDE AND BE PARENTS. MATERIALISTIC THINGS DON'T DEFINE YOUR PARENTING SKILLS, YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENT WILL BE WHEN YOUR CHILD PUTS ON HIS OR HER CAP AND GOWN AND WALKS ACROSS THAT STAGE. (PROUD MOMENT)
SN: S/O TO ALL THE SINGLE MOTHERS AND FATHERS HOLDING IT DOWN FOR THEIR CHILD OR CHILDREN. I COMMEND YOUR LEADERSHIP AND RESPONSIBILITY ATTRIBUTES.
FAST FORWARD TO TEN MONTHS AND YOU GIVE BIRTH TO A BEAUTIFUL BABY. AS YOU LIVE IN THE MOMENT OF JUST DELIVERING THIS HEALTHY BABY, YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE ALL ALONE. YOU ARE TORN BETWEEN BEING A SINGLE MOM AND DOING IT W/O HELP, OR BEING A SINGLE MOM AND ASKING FOR CHILD SUPPORT.I AM PERSONALLY NOT A FAN OF C.S. BUT WHAT I CAN'T STAND IS WHEN YOU:
1) HOLD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES AGAINST A FATHER THAT IS TRYING TO BE IN THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILD ONLY TO BE BLOCKED BY DRAMA THAT IS NOT NEEDED.
2) DISRESPECTING THE FATHER OR MOTHER IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
3) CONSTANTLY TAKING THE FATHER TO COURT FOR CHILD SUPPORT FOR MORE MONEY (THAT YOU MAY NOT EVEN GET) JUST TO BE SPITEFUL BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T MOVED ON IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND IS NOW USING THE MONEY FOR YOUR OWN NEEDS.
BUT FATHERS, I HAVE NO SYMPATHY OR EMPATHY FOR A MAN THAT WILL NOT DO RIGHT BY HIS CHILD. WHEN YOU BECOME A FATHER, YOU SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY HAVE A NEW MINDSET OF NOW I HAVE SOMEONE ELSE TO LIVE FOR. IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU MAY FEEL LIKE THE CHILD MAY NOT BE YOURS, UNTIL YOU CAN PROVE IT, BE A FATHER BECAUSE ONCE YOU STEP INTO THAT CHILD'S LIFE AND CREATE A BOND, IT IS THE HARDEST THING TO BREAK. A WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO CHASE A MAN DOWN TO BE A FATHER. IF YOU CAN SPEND YOUR MONEY ON FIXING YOUR CAR, BUYING A NEW WARDROBE, OR GOING OUT WITH THE BOYS TO THE STRIP CLUB, YOU ARE MORE THAN ABLE AND CAPABLE OF BEING A FATHER. A CHILD NEEDS MORE THAN MONEY...THEY NEED THAT EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL CONNECTION.
MOMS, IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE A FATHER, THEN YOU STEP IN AND DO IT. THE CHILD WILL ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS. ME PERSONALLY, I AM NOT A FAN OF C.S. BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE THE MENTALITY OF MOMMY AND DADDY AND I WILL NEVER BE IN A JUDGE'S COURTROOM DEMANDING SUPPORT. A CHILD DIDN'T ASK TO BE IN THIS WORLD, WE AS PARENTS HAVE TO BE MATURE ENOUGH TO PUT THE BULLSH** ASIDE AND BE PARENTS. MATERIALISTIC THINGS DON'T DEFINE YOUR PARENTING SKILLS, YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENT WILL BE WHEN YOUR CHILD PUTS ON HIS OR HER CAP AND GOWN AND WALKS ACROSS THAT STAGE. (PROUD MOMENT)
SN: S/O TO ALL THE SINGLE MOTHERS AND FATHERS HOLDING IT DOWN FOR THEIR CHILD OR CHILDREN. I COMMEND YOUR LEADERSHIP AND RESPONSIBILITY ATTRIBUTES.
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