DOES DRESSING PROVOCATIVELY MEAN YOU LACK SELF CONFIDENCE?"

Now-a-days dressing and the term "swag" has changed from pants hanging off your ass to tight ass pants and some vans. But what has never really changed only evolved is women dressing scantly clad ( barely nothing on). I personally was raised in a home where showing to much meant you were looking for something. To me, women who dress half naked lack self confidence somewhere. I say this because how could you really go out dressed like that if you weren't seeking attention. What kills me even more is when a woman dresses provocatively to a club and gets upset when approached disrespectfully by the opposite or same sex. NO female deserves to be touched without her permission but what did you really expect dressed that way. That person is not looking at you saying, " Damn, that can be my girlfriend!"....He's saying, "Damn, I wonder if she will let me hit?"...Sorry but it is true. Just like the saying goes " guilty by association", your guilty by what you wear. The way you dress says alot who you are, whether you want to believe it or not. What baffles me the most is that I know strippers that get naked for a living but if you saw them in the street, you wouldn't even know because they are clothed. The bad part about it is that some of you have daughters and in this present day, not only should you be scared for yourself but also for your child. Tying their shirts up showing their navel is not an example you want to teach them. Allow them to be kids...A woman gets more respect when she is covered then when she has ass cheeks, whole ass or all breasts out...Don't get me wrong...there is nothing wrong with some clevage showing but too much is not a good look. It's not cute nor classy...If it is your job to be photographed semi nude, then fine but once the job is done, put on some clothes. I'm not saying button up like a nun but if your going to a kids party, grocery store, school event, or church...put on some clothes. If you ever notice, alot of these big time rappers have half naked women in their videos but look at the wifey ( i.e. Ludacris and Euxodie, TIP and Tiny, Fabolous and Emilie, Jay-z and Beyonce, Jim Jones and his girlfriend (don't remember her name)...total opposite. If your not a pole 24/7, put on some clothes...Black people as a race has enough scrutiny, don't make it worse...


P.S. This is all my opinion...I'm not asking you to agree!


SMMOCHES